296: It's All Invented – What's the Life Story You're Telling Yourself?

WHAT STORIES do you tell yourself? In this timeless conversation, Rosamund and Benjamin Zander explain how we can reframe those draft stories – they're not written in concrete – into life lessons that are more useful for us and those around us. “It’s all invented anyway,” write authors Roz and Ben Zander, “so we might as well invent a story … that enhances our quality of life….”

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295: Using the Right Words to Improve Student Mental Health

My conversation with Dr. Hayley Watson delved into the critical topic of mental health support for students, exploring its connection to childhood trauma and the need for robust education in schools. Dr. Watson emphasized the neuroscience behind mental health and its impact on both students and educators, highlighting the importance of prioritizing well-being within the educational space. Key to her work is training educators to use words that help draw the limiting stories out of children and provide a space for students to help one another.

Our conversation covered practical strategies like mindfulness exercises and self-care techniques that educators can adopt while advocating for broader systemic changes like comprehensive mental health education for children. By bridging the gap between neuroscience, education, and self-care, she provided valuable insights into fostering a healthier and more supportive environment for students and educators alike.

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294: Cracking the Code of Career Growth With "Executive Presence."

My conversation with the “Connection Counselor, Joe Kwon, focused on the concept of “executive presence,” the ability to command attention and inspire trust through confidence and clarity of voice and behavior. An essential component of E.P. is image – how one presents oneself to others, especially to leadership. But it’s more than mere image; it’s the aura you convey to leadership that you can step into the larger shoes of the next position and make things happen. E.P. gives leadership the confidence to place a bet on “future you” rather than just on “past you.” E.P. is often an essential component of getting promotions when candidates are similar in terms of skill set and track records.

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293: What's Happened to Diversity Programs?

Jason Greer is the Founder and President of Greer Consulting, Inc., a labor management and employee relations consulting firm specializing in diversity, equity, and inclusion. He is a trusted source of the latest race and labor relations news for media across the country. In this conversation, Jason and I explored the challenges of DEI in today's divided world, delving into practical strategies for building inclusive workplaces and navigating sensitive topics, all to achieve a future where every voice is heard and differences are celebrated.

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292: How Do You Teach to Inspire Student Curiosity?

Andy Stephens was born and raised in a small town in Northwest Washington on the Salish Sea. After 17 years, he traveled to Los Angeles to play college baseball in the sunshine. He taught in the public schools of LAUSD for six years before moving to Boulder, CO where he now teaches science at New Vista High School.

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291: They Can't Take Them Away From Us

No guest today on Getting Unstuck in what is my first episode of the new year. I promise no New Year’s resolutions except one: to read and digest as many books as I can during the year.

Given my interest in books, I was curious to know what some of my colleagues, friends, and family members will read in 2024. So, I contacted more than 40 of them, asking them for a brief bio, their book of choice, and why that title might find its way to their nightstand. I thought that maybe I'd hear from a few, acknowledging that many might be too busy to respond, given the fast-approaching holidays.

Their responses poured in.

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290: The Voices You Listened to the Most

“Getting Unstuck” is somewhat of a rare animal in the world of podcasting. It’s offered timely content focused on change, education, and curiosity for over 5 years and sits in the top 3% of all podcasts. And we just passed the 300-episode milestone, which is somewhat of a magic marker for podcasts.

As we approach the end of the year, I wanted to take a moment to thank my listeners and recap 2023 in three parts: 1. the top episodes in terms of downloads, 2. the episode that meant the most to me, and 3 my most popular episode over the life of the podcast.

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289: Challenging the Traditional Education Model

Mary Nadeau has worked at Nokomis Regional High as a teacher and administrator for the past 32 years. She has served as the Principal for the past 15 years. Nick Miller is a member of the English department. Our conversation explored how fly fishing, a seemingly unconventional activity in schools, can be woven into the fabric of education. We delved into the significance of the sport, its potential as an English elective, and its role in empowering student voice and choice. 

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285: The Empty Library: Fill It!

Books are one of freedom’s first lines of defense. If we allow our freedom to read what we want to read to be compromised, what freedom might next fall? We only need to look at history to find out.

In this episode – a timely replay of episode 271 – I travel to Berlin, Germany, and the Bebelplatz, a large square in the city's center. As calming as the setting is today, it was anything but on the night of May 10, 1933. There, a mob of Nazis, Nazi-leaning students, and citizens gathered to burn an estimated 20,000 books the Nazi regime had deemed culturally and spiritually unfit for public consumption.

So, this holiday season, reinforce choice, knowledge, and critical thinking: fight the book banners by giving books as gifts – lots of books.

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283: Why We Should Cultivate Curiosity in Our Youth

Lifelong learning and curiosity are essential for a thriving society. They allow us to adapt to change, solve problems, and create new opportunities. Yet, curiosity is often overlooked in education, leading to a decline in curiosity among children. Professor Susan Engel speaks to some of the causes of the decline and how educators can foster curiosity.

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282: What History Teaches – A Complex Case Study

History is the story of our humanity – and inhumanity – and is essential for understanding our present and shaping our future. In this podcast, two published lay historians, Bill Whiteside, and Paul McNicholls, discuss the importance of history and memoir writing through a study of Fatherland: A Memoir of War, Conscience, and Family Secrets by Burkhard Bilger.

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281: Cultivating Well-Being for Improved Performance and Results

Kate Jackson is the principal at Enso Wellbeing Coaching, where she works with individuals and organizations to enhance leadership, culture, communication, productivity, retention, and, ultimately, well-being. Kate is also co-author of Flyfishing - A Pathway to Wellbeing. The real story in this episode is how Kate’s personal experiences – divorce, stage 4 cancer, and an initial career in the corporate world – came together to inform how she approaches her work as a well-being coach and consultant. She speaks with hard-earned authenticity and an awareness that her message of well-being and its potential benefits must be expressed in a language that business leaders and teams are willing to hear.

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280: The NYC Bagel: Yes, It is the Water – And a Lot More

June Hersh is a food historian and author of Jewish foods, including the highly readable Iconic New York Jewish Food: A History and Guide with Recipes. And so, she was the perfect talking partner to help us understand a truly iconic New York Jewish food, the bagel. We’ll talk about the bagel’s history, how it’s made, including why the water from upstate New York is an essential ingredient.

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278: Identifying the Business Practices that Create Future Leaders

This is part 2 of my conversation with two very smart guys, Wade Bruffey and Zoltan Sarda, the co-founders of GoMobi.work, a partnership-driven software company that helps organizations build and optimize their employee development program. In Episode 274, I interviewed Wade and Zoltan. In this episode, they interviewed me for their podcast. Both interviews evolved into deep conversations about hiring practices, organizational purpose and culture, and leadership.

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