Getting Unstuck: Reclaiming Our Students – a Conversation with Tamara Neufeld Strijack and Hannah Beach

We have lost the rituals that used to keep kids connected to the adults and our lives. We have lost the culture that takes care of this. Kids are not coming to us for guidance in the same way.
— Hannah

Today on Getting Unstuck

Why are school children more anxious, aggressive and shut down than ever before? We’ll get answers from educators Tamara Neufeld Strijack and Hannah Beach.

Tamara is the academic dean of the Neufeld Institute, where she develops and delivers courses and workshops supporting parents, teachers, and helping professionals around the world make sense of children through developmental science. Tamara works as a registered clinical counsellor, parent consultant, and sessional instructor for several universities, where she lectures for the faculties of education and counseling.

Hannah is an award-winning educator, author, and keynote speaker. She was recognized by the Canadian Human Rights Commission in 2017 as one of five featured change-makers in Canada. She is a Neufeld course facilitator, delivers professional development services across the country, provides emotional health consulting to schools, and speaks at national and international conferences about the power of bringing more feeling and human connection into the classroom.

Together, they are the authors of Reclaiming Our Students: Why Children Are More Anxious, Aggressive, and Shut Down Than Ever―And What We Can Do About It – a book about restoring the emotional well-being of children. As stated in the book’s preface, “Academics can no longer be divorced from matters of the heart.”

“The child's ability to be receptive to content, and their receptiveness to learning comes from their feeling of being safe and, and in a relationship where they can actually take it in.” — Tamara

“The child's ability to be receptive to content, and their receptiveness to learning comes from their feeling of being safe and, and in a relationship where they can actually take it in.” — Tamara

Listen for:

  1. Why are our kids in the position today of being more anxious, aggressive and shut down than ever before?

  2. What has been the impact of children losing time for free play – and of entertainment becoming the substitute for free play?

  3. What are “void moments,” and what purpose do they serve?

  4. How can one teacher make a huge difference in the risk factors of children?

  5. What are the characteristics of the “caring leader”?

  6. Why we need to provide children with outlets for expression, and why are those outlets especially important in the online learning environment we find ourselves in today?

When we see a child who is aggressive or being difficult in some way, we look to the only the behavior, and we go to correct the behavior. But what’s behind the behavior? What if we feed feed the emotion behind that behavior? The behavior will naturally go away, just like food will help alleviate a child’s hunger. If we’re only treating the behavior, and not the root cause of it, how do we actually shift the child?
— Hannah

Connect with Hannah and Tamara

Reclaiming Our Students on Amazon

Book website, including the “Inside / Outside Handbook

Hannah on LinkedIN

Hannah’s website

Tamara’s website


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